Man of character means a personality of
moral quality representing The Mother Nature to some extent as one cannot
become a person without any flaw. How do we know what is the standard of Mother Nature? One
answer is by observation of Universe but it is not practicable to become a
reflection of Nature, the other practicable answer is to follow our mother as she
is the only one who loves us with the same intensity as the Mother Nature does.
After marriage a girl is transformed in to a mother along with amalgamation of
her husband’s characteristics to an extent of compromise to run the show
smoothly similar to the one being run by Universal Theatre by balancing good
and evil. Every mother under the influence of her extreme affections towards
her child would wish to see him / her a reflection of her own plus her husband’s,
therefore throughout the period of upbringing all the character building points
are transferred to prevent the shadow of any other force because she is bound
to be selfish otherwise there will be a very weak protective force of her.
There is no explanation of this phenomenon except declaring it a natural
instinct. No parents would like to let her child float at his / her own; hence
they will try their best to bring him / her up as an exemplary character.
Without going in to details and
delicacy of a good character the focus remains throughout that their child must
not adopt any characteristics which they themselves don’t possess. For example
they will never think of their adult child, even independent, dancing on the
street without clothes because they themselves would never behave in this
manner. The likings and disliking are always pinned to one’s self and can only
be enforced upon the one wholly possessed which is not possible in case of
other temporary owners of society like any relative, a teacher, colleague or
even the best friend. A weak possessive power increases the tolerance limits
accordingly while total power’s tolerance limits are too tight, therefore
Character Building level can be declared on top at home and not at any other
place, may it be any individual, group or institution.
Once the foundation laid down is
strong enough, there remains minimum risk of any damage to the structure,
exceptions are always there, and efforts are made to reach an ideal level of anything.
Education provides opportunities through multidimensional interaction to enhance
the vision, a tool to multiply the positivity. To get back to upbringing one
has to live in not only a family rather a family system for competitive
observations and learning within high moral characteristics of a specific
family to be referred in future as Family Background. Aims and objectives of a
family system are closer to ideal values than any other institution in
isolation as for as the moral values are concerned. Fact of the matter is that
proper basic education is sufficient to polish the personality which is also
available at home but that is an exception.
Great thoughts about mother. Very nice article
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